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Margaret MacKenzie's avatar

I am now 65 - yea for Medicare! - and I came of age with Roe v Wade and then Watergate. Like many women of my generation, I took for granted the hard fight it took to grant us agency over our bodies. I had two friends in college choose to have abortions rather than give birth before they were ready. They both eventually married the young men with whom they became first became pregnant and had families together at the right time.

At 33 and 35, I was overjoyed to become pregnant, and with each test, ultrasound, doctor appointment, I was assured two healthy pregnancies. But I knew I, with support of my husband and my doctor, may have had to make a decision that could change that joy were my pregnancies not sustainable. I fortunately did not have to make that decision, but I am sure glad I had that choice. And that is what it is -- a choice. One to be made between a women, her physician, and, hopefully, a supportive partner.

What makes me so [expletive] angry is that men, and it is almost always men, are so hardcore against abortion. Never will Alito or Thomas have to deal with the intricacies of pregnancy, of the bodily changes, and its possible dangers. Hell, they don’t even know what it’s like to have a monthly period, and that’s no cakewalk, as we women know!

On the flip side, these men will never know the sheer joy of pregnancy, and yes, the agony of giving birth, but with such a sweet reward. My husband can only remotely experience what I did 31 and 29 years ago. But I digress…

[edited] Politicians and judges, regardless of gender, are not qualified to make decisions about women’s reproductive health care. Full stop.

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Spake Zarathustra's avatar

Joyce, in your closing remarks thanking us as subscribers, I'm sure that most among us would agree that I feel honored and lucky to be among those that can claim a small part in supporting your work. In fact I would go so far to say that many would be eager to pitch in if you came up with a go-fund-me project that you are interested in pursuing. I feel so good and humbled every time I read your closing "We're in this together." Thank you again Joyce. Thus,

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